Saturday, September 19, 2009

Milena Velba How Did She Got Milk?

Ep 58: Leaving Your Comfort Zone

With the theme of hope today hopefully motivate them to get out of their comfort zone, to be challenged, to explore their limits, so to test.

I noticed that in general, we find it hard to leave our comfort zone. The comfort zone is the domain of the known, the rules we know, the skills we know we have, we've proven we have, what we believe / know is possible. But tb is the mastery of skills that we believe we have what we think is impossible, we know we do not know. We move in this area because it is the known, familiar. We do not get surprises because we can predict the results of our actions in this area. It is comfortable, not expose ourselves, we do not venture into the unknown can be frightening and can often have a prior idea about how it will be our performance on a task or activity. This happens for example when we have a time and in our work, and we do all that we do, and master our jobs and do well.

bad thing about this is that when we stay in our comfort zone, when they are exposed to new experiences, do not learn, do not grow, no real progress in our path. We gain nothing, setting the pace, we freeze, we do not evolve. In fact we lose. We lose the opportunity to grow, to learn something new, to know ourselves, to live a new experience, to broaden the horizon of what we thought possible and impossible.

Today a friend told me that her friend is a professional athlete and sports fan in general, extreme loads, has a tattoo on his chest that says I do not know where the limit is, just know where it is.

That's the attitude I wish more people had. To probe our limits, which will challenge you constantly. Limits everything from personal boundaries of what we believe are our own limitations, to the limits of technology, to social boundaries, family, etc.

easiest thing should be from yourself. What things would you like to do, but think you can not (for whatever reason)? Playing a musical instrument? Public speaking? Playing sports? Start a conversation with that person you care for some time but you have not dared to near him? Working to change you and follow your true calling? Identify what things you've listed as impossible but if you go back to look, maybe not impossible, just have not known until now how to do them? Why have you accepted that not possible? Going to let something or someone other than you come between you and your dream?

What things have you been told or led to believe that they are impossible to do, but you believe that if there would be very useful for everyone? For example, when Thomas Alva Edison was working on the invention of the phonograph, the people, "experts" said that he would never succeed, that could never invent a device to record and reproduce sounds and speech, and the reason was that nobody had ever accomplished before. Luckily he was carried away by these comments and went out of their comfort zone, as known to him and was exposed to that might not result. I do not know whether you will be inventor style, but if you are, you've been driven by comments from others about something is impossible? At one time Bill Gates said that no one would need a hard drive more than 740 megs on your home computer (if not the, let me know), how much is your HD?

social structure where you get on, you accommodate? This is not to be revolutionary to be revolutionary, but if something does not suit you and you think it should be different, you're doing something? If no one had come out of their comfort zone, women would not vote, there would be no divorce law in Chile, would not be discussing in many parts of the world (and some we have already approved) gay marriage for example.

regardless of whether you do, on what your passion and whatever your talent, if there is something you can do today or would like to do and not what you're doing, ask yourself, why? It is because you are not comfortable and prefer not to give you the trouble?

Every day, says my friend Mike Magdaleno, is an opportunity for greatness in whatever they do. If you do not take it, you lose. Sure, the next day, you have another new opportunity, but that already happened and did not take, was lost forever. And as my other friend, JB Glossinger of MorningCoach.com, whether you find the cure for cancer, or a new type of paper clips to hold together, if not get out of comfort zone, you'll never find out, and you are depriving the world of the gift of your talent.

Well, we reached the end of this episode, I hope you enjoyed today's topic, which you have contributed something. As always remember you the ways of communication: larutadelavida@gmail.com mail, blog larutadelavidapodcast.blogspot.com, twitter.com / larutadelavida, feedback, comments, questions, suggestions, critiques, greetings, whatever you want. We again request those who download the iTunes program if you are willing and able, please give me a review. I wish I could reach and help more people and those reviews serve to give more visibility to Route.

Well now I take my leave, having a great week, leave your comfort zone, take care, hugs, and bon voyage!

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