Let the subject today. Walking here on the central theme is the life of your dreams, and from time to time, I run into a situation that does not surprise me much, because until recently happened to me a lot, but that worries me, and that see that many people do not know what their dreams. Many people do not know what you would most like to do in life, or dare not express it, or does not believe has the right even to have that aspiration.
And I worried for several reasons. One is because if you do not know what to do if you do not know what you like, if you do not know what are their dreams, which they think are likely to achieve it? Almost 0. Another reason is because many people have come to believe that no right or make no sense, or that "can not" even before you start to dream! Or perhaps when children had dreams and for some reason had to suppress and had already forgotten that. That seems to me very sad.
Finally tb worries me because the more people are living and realizing their dreams, the happier everyone individually, so our environment is happier and happier we all are. It's a virtuous circle.
As I said before, I think it is a duty for all exploit our talents and realize our dreams and help others to exploit their talents and realize their dreams. Here we review a very easy to discover what our dreams, what we love and therefore where we should focus our energies.
Well, I do not know if you lie to Steve Pavlina, he is one of the most sounding names in the world of personal development and is the author of "Personal Development for Smart People", which even I have not read so I can not comment yet. His wife Erin is written on the blog "Spiritual Wisdom for Conscious People" in www.erinpavlina.com and his last post is very related to today's topic is called "How to find and ignite your passion "," How to find and turn your passion. " On the Road Blog I'll put a link to this article on Erin's blog for those who want to read it, really recommend it because we will discuss here only an excerpt.
Well, take a sheet of paper or open a document in Word to take notes and follow the instructions. There are 4 questions you are going to give much light on your dreams and passions, here is the method proposed Erin:
1) What makes you go crazy with excitement?
Think about all the things in life that you love do. Skiing, reading, hiking, socializing, partying, make videos and upload them to YouTube, playing poker, or meditate quietly for hours. Make a list of all those things you love to do if someone told you that you will take the day off work to do as you wish. "Patricia, why not missing work tomorrow and you dedicate yourself to _______?". Complete the sentence with a list of things you'd like to do instead of going to work.
2) What breaks your heart?
When you look around, you see suffering? You see things that are wrong and you'd love to see it solved? What breaks your heart? Malnutrition or child abuse? People who are homeless? Policy? The war and global conflicts? What breaks your heart is a hint to find your passion. If you believe that you actually have the possibility to make a difference in the world, what you would focus? What problem would attack? Nobody says you have to end hunger in the world overnight. Just look into your heart and see what pain you kept there.
3) What would you do if you knew you could not fail?
most common thing people say they know what are their dreams, but he is not doing anything to achieve them is: "I do not know how." No one knows how to do when you are just beginning. Not knowing how to do something is not a good enough reason not to. You can learn. Or find someone who is doing successful and learn how they did it, or just go your own way of trial and error until you find a way.
4) What makes you feel what you've contributed?
Another way to find out what your passion is to complete the following sentence: "At the end of the day, I feel good about myself when he_______." Feeling good about yourself when you've solved a problem, helped a sufferer, made a change in your life, or another person, when you have challenged yourself, when you have organized an area, cooked a meal for your family, when you've given yourself time to meditate? That makes you feel the satisfaction and feeling of a job well done? You could do that for a living? It is very probable that it can, or at least do something related.
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1) What makes you go crazy with excitement?
Think about all the things in life that you love do. Skiing, reading, hiking, socializing, partying, make videos and upload them to YouTube, playing poker, or meditate quietly for hours. Make a list of all those things you love to do if someone told you that you will take the day off work to do as you wish. "Patricia, why not missing work tomorrow and you dedicate yourself to _______?". Complete the sentence with a list of things you'd like to do instead of going to work.
not matter if it seems irrelevant or a waste of time. A friend goes crazy with video games. He is a player, nothing more. There is nothing more than the rather do. He went to college and studied computer thinking it was a good career choice for him, but really did not like. now works as a tester and play games all day. Increased very fast and is very popular because it gives great constructive feedback to improve the games. If it continues could create your own game in a more or integrate the design team.
Once you have the list of things that excite you, consider how you could make the transition to a career that allows you to do it all the time. Think hard and be creative. You do not have to give your work today, but start thinking about what ways there are others who are making money doing that that you love, and see if you can find a way to insertarte in those areas.
2) What breaks your heart?
When you look around, you see suffering? You see things that are wrong and you'd love to see it solved? What breaks your heart? Malnutrition or child abuse? People who are homeless? Policy? The war and global conflicts? What breaks your heart is a hint to find your passion. If you believe that you actually have the possibility to make a difference in the world, what you would focus? What problem would attack? Nobody says you have to end hunger in the world overnight. Just look into your heart and see what pain you kept there.
Make a list of everything that really breaks your heart, things that really touch your heart and emotions that provoke strong reactions. Once you have the list, see if you can take action on those things. Not necessarily be something you can change your current job for now, may be something you start to be done in parallel, and that helps you gain experience, and who knows, later a job offer.
3) What would you do if you knew you could not fail?
most common thing people say they know what are their dreams, but he is not doing anything to achieve them is: "I do not know how." No one knows how to do when you are just beginning. Not knowing how to do something is not a good enough reason not to. You can learn. Or find someone who is doing successful and learn how they did it, or just go your own way of trial and error until you find a way.
In your paper, write the sentence: "If I knew that I will not fail me ... ... ... ...." And then make a list of everything you do. Think big. The sky is the limit.
Now think of all the ways you could accomplish what's on your list, there is only one way to get things done. For example, if your list was "to help and teach people to eat a healthy and environmentally aware ", how could you do this? You could create a blog or podcast, to organize workshops in your community, closer to schools, writing a book, etc.. While you stay in tune with your dreams, how to do that is your decision. You could do with your list? Make a list of all careers, jobs or activities that could carry out what is on your list of things you would do if you knew you could not fail.
4) What makes you feel what you've contributed?
Another way to find out what your passion is to complete the following sentence: "At the end of the day, I feel good about myself when he_______." Feeling good about yourself when you've solved a problem, helped a sufferer, made a change in your life, or another person, when you have challenged yourself, when you have organized an area, cooked a meal for your family, when you've given yourself time to meditate? That makes you feel the satisfaction and feeling of a job well done? You could do that for a living? It is very probable that it can, or at least do something related.
Your passion, your dreams are on you, somewhere inside you. Remember them or find them. Then take action. You can do it! When you combine passion with talent and contribution, success was not long in coming. Do not go doing something you hate, start looking at yourself and discover what makes you happy. It's your right and your duty!
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Now I say goodbye, take care much, remember your dreams, a hug and a nice trip!
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